Monday, July 11, 2011

"Hola Amigos"

           One thing for sure is, although I'm a Salvadorian female born and raised in the US in Washington, DC, I STILL constantly experience racism. People still tend to assume that I'm Mexican because apparently all "Spanish" people in the US are Mexican. Why people ask that? I'm guessing it's because they quickly assume that when crossing the border you're coming from Mexico you have to be Mexican. Well NO. Not all HISPANICS, not "Spanish" people come from Mexico. There are other countries in the world where Hispanic people come from.
           Just about a week ago, I was coming from the metro station at Columbia Heights and this guy from California who was Italian and White, was passing out fliers for some college meeting and comes up to me and asks me one of the most ignorant questions a person can ask me, "Are you Mexican?" Right there and then I didn't like this guy. Sad thing about this is that he seemed to be a very nice person from how he was talking to me, but that ONE question he asked made me see him as an ignorant person. I answered his question and calmly told him, "No, I'm Salvadorian" and he says, "Yeah, you don't look like you would be Mexican". So now my questions are first, why would you even ask if I was Mexican if I "don't look Mexican" and how does a Mexican look? To me it's so rude and just plain ignorant for someone to ask a question like that. If you want to know where I'm from then just ask me "Where are you from" and you won't get on my bad side and you won't look ignorant. This guy's question just really made me realize that there is still racism going on. I mean I know he wasn't being racist towards me, but in a way I felt disrespected by his question as a Hispanic. I felt even more that people don't seem to understand that there are Hispanics from other countries other than Mexico!
          Then not just do people think that, but they also want to automatically speak to you in Spanish. Now I know it's not ALL people either, but there are people who do it. Especially when it's people who are not Hispanic, and they try to talk to me in Spanish because they assume once more that you don't understand English, and this can really get under my skin. One thing is to assume, but another thing is to just be plain ignorant. Like really, saying "Hola como estas?" or "Hola Amigos" because I'm Hispanic and you have to talk to me in Spanish is not necessary at all! I would understand if at first you talked to me in English and if I didn't understand what you were saying or you didn't understand what I was saying then it's okay to talk to me in Spanish, but just please don't automatically go into speaking Spanish because I'm Hispanic.
          There are also times when people just do it to be funny. But sometimes it's not funny at all, it's actually really rude. I get how there are times when someone you know does it and you're just kind of used to it because you know that they do not have bad intentions when they say things like that. But when someone you don't know does it I automatically feel like it's rude. Unless I have time to get to know the person then maybe my perspective towards them about their comments in Spanish would change, but other than that I don't think my thoughts towards people who assume I'm Mexican without asking and people who talk to me in Spanish first without even knowing if I understand English will remain the same.
       Now about the Santa Monica noose incident, I am actually NOT surprised at all about what the school did. The incident happened to an Africa-American student and White students did the "horse-play". The school didn't EVEN bother to call the student's parents to notify them about what happened to their child, about a white student connecting their son to a locker with a lock and yelling out "Slave for sale!" And yet people want to believe that racism doesn't exist anymore? REALLY?! I don't think so. Racism still exists and this incident COMPLETELY shows evidence of it! But not only did that happened, the school calls the students' parents who committed the ignorant incident instead! Are you kidding me!? I think it is completely RIDICULOUS to not even notify the African-American student's mother! It is clear that America is NOT post-racial. Racism still exists and I am sure that it is noticeable, but apparently nothing is being done to stop it or to even recognize the way it should be to prevent it from getting worse, because it is still going on. America needs to acknowledge that there are different races in this world besides the typical White race that people are used to. Racism will never go away and people will not be treated equal until people in America start to accept ALL races.

6 comments:

  1. Wow, this was deep and from the heart. As your friend and visiting Latin American countries, I do find it disrespectful when people automatically assume things about Latinos. I think you handled the situation with the college student well, because I for sure wouldn't have had the same reaction. I applaud you Jenny, & I'm truly sorry if I offended you with my Spanish speaking to you.

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  2. This was interesting to read because many times I only hear the racism toward African-Americans. I understand your point of view. It is not fair to just profiling people based on their. I know I have done that before, I underestimated this lady because she was Hispanic and got a surprising response. It was nice reading this and seeing it from a different point of view. It makes it easier for me to not prejudge. THANKS!

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  3. Jennifer, I could really feel the emotion in your writing and can sense how passionate you are about your experiences.
    It's pathetic that as an educated nation, people would assume all Latino or Hispanic people are from Mexico. I totally understand your frustration.

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  4. I feel you girl because i have experienced this type of racism. I also hate when people say I'm "Spanish" when they actually mean Latino or Hispanic. I also don't like when people make fun of the way we speak or say particular words. Friends I'm okay with but strangers I'm not. Nice entry!

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  5. In 2011 I think it's ignorant for anyone to assume anything about a persons ethnicity or language based on looks. I was on an elevator in Houston once when a group of Latino men though they could insult me in Spanish by saying that the "F" on my shirt (I worked for an organization called Fusion) stood for Feo. I could have been Panamanian, Dominican, Puerto Rican, Columbian, etc... but they assumed I was black and non-Spanish speaking. When they left the elevator I said: "No soy feo, estoy fantástico, pero furioso en su ignorancia". Now... take that.

    I'm equally upset at Blacks who make racist jokes about Mexicans, Latinos, or Hispanics. It seems to me that people always want someone to play the "nigger" and that people somehow think it elevates their status to put another person of a different race, gender, sexual orientation, etc... down. It is maddening... and the strength of your entry is how raw and emotional it is. We "feel" you.

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  6. first i want to start off saying great job Jenny! and i love how you made it personal. im glad to have friends outside my race so that you can know whats not okay to say out your mouth, and to let others know that what they say is not okay. because i was once that ignorant person calling people the wrong race,.. but that was only because i was too lazy to guess and all that lol, but its not cool, cause i'd be mad if someone called me an African,... but i am and i think thats kinda funny how we tack so much offence to what people say, cause i am an African, but i'm African American lol,... but yeah good jod lil Jenny :)

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